Needs And Wants
Hi everyone
Happy Mother’s Day!
I am to be pampered today so I will make this chat a little shorter – well maybe, but you know how I like to chat 
We’ve got our table booked, down at Geoff’s tearoom, for our Mother’s Day Sunday lunch…
And, as long as I don’t have to do any washing-up I don’t mind what you call it… ha ha ha!!!
Now, I said I would let you know about the car as soon as anything happened…
Well, we are now the proud owners of our dream car – Law of Attraction in action!
But it can be a funny old thing, this manifesting lark…
On the one hand Chris has wanted a car like this ‘all his life’ but, on the other hand, it appeared to arrive in just a month… ha ha ha!!!
Which brings me to todays chat on needs and wants
I read somewhere years ago that…
“HAPPINESS is having your NEEDS met, JOY is having your WANTS met.”
And so often we forget that – just for today…
We have food on the table, a roof over our head and a couple of ‘bob’ (bucks) in our back pocket.
For there IS only today and, with those needs met, we have EVERY reason to be happy.
To say thankyou and show gratitude.
Feelings are a guide to help us decide (little bit of poetry there )…
So just for a rough guide here, let’s follow the major chakras upwards from the base.
1. SAFE and SECURE.
Once you have your roof and food and a bit left over, this part is sorted.
(Or whatever YOU FEEL gives you a sense of security, because it is often different for each of us).
From this strong base line we can move on upwards… the start of our creating skills.
2. FUN and PLEASURE.
Now we can open up and share.
We venture out and try to find a partner, friends, companions, fellow travellers.
It is simply more fun doing things we enjoy with someone else
A joke is much funnier shared…
So is a disaster or percieved failure… ha ha ha!!!
A mountain is easier to climb with a helping hand…
We do not essentially need a friend… but what joy it brings – to fall in love!
You cannot experience that one on your own (excepting maybe if you’re narcissus ).
3. GIVING and RECEIVING… creating.
Now we have created another new world to experience… an ‘out there’.
But to interact we have to move energy backwards and forwards.
We have to feel the flow.
So we give…
And to create balance we must receive also.
Now we are the creators of our experiences/world.
4.LOVE and HATE.
Your heart will let you know very quickly which is which.
It’s the same thing really, but opposite ends of the scale.
By sharing, giving and receiving you experience first hand what you like and don’t like…
What you desire and what you don’t.
Your heart will guide you clearly – if only you will listen.
But you must have contrast and variety in life to make your decisions by.
5.EXPRESSION.
Now we are not only sharing experiences with others but also our inner spirit/nature.
The connection to ‘out there’ has gone back ‘in here’
Everything we do becomes touched and recognisable as a part of us.
From our voice, the way we walk, laugh, love, write, paint, tell those jokes or do our jobs…
We dance our own dance to our own tune.
6.INTUITVE SENSE.
Each of the proceeding stages is progressive.
But, as you reach and pass through each stage you do not let it go.
On the contary… you still keep each avenue open.
You will always ‘need’ to feel safe and secure.
You will feel the desire for another.
You will feel the joy of sharing, giving and receiving, creating.
As you overflow you must express yourself.
These concepts are continous…
But there is more – there is always more!
This is where for me TRUST comes in.
We begin to trust ourselves implicitly.
No if’s, but’s or maybe’s…
You sense a shift, a whisper, sensation… a flutter in your tummy.
You notice a ‘sign’, symbol… advert on the bus!
You hear a voice, sound, script in a movie
Whatever you focus on immediately brings more of the same or similar to you.
Trusting your ability to ‘read’ these sensations will expedite your ability to manifest your dreams much quicker.
Whether this is a new car, good health, abundance, new job or a perfect partner.
You are tapping into the nothing part of you.
“You cannot creat something out of nothing”…
OH YES YOU CAN!!!
There is more ‘nothing in stuff than stuff’… ha ha ha!!!
7.BECOMING at ONE with it all.
Knowing and understanding, sensing and feeling there is no out there, in here, you and me, this and that, fast and slow.
Whatever…
There just is… and your experience of the sensation.
Bringing joy to the world, your world, is to embrace everything in it’s totality… which is you!
I think what I am trying to say but getting lost in words is…
You grow into your wants and dreams and desires by experience.
This car at 21 would not have been a dream come true but possibly a nightmare.
At 21 we were not ready to ‘accept/allow’ such a want into our reality.
But now we are… simple… ha ha ha!!!
So just for today…
Just in this moment…
Let’s share a joyful Sunday Lunch together as friends
And ‘knowing’ without a shadow of a doubt, that whatever your dream is, whatever you want, it IS possible and indeed it IS on it’s way.
How perfect is that..?
OK girls, I know I said I would be brief so let’s move on to the chocolate puddings
Enjoy your Mother’s day!
Judith.
