Hi, I’m Judith Conroy from Chikara-Reiki-Do.
And I’m answering your questions on Reiki.
How can Reiki help you understand your kids better?
Reiki, the miracle cure all.
This is both a complicated and convoluted question, but also a very simple one, too.
I could go into great depth and wisdom here, or I could go light and simple.
I choose the latter mostly because I will answer from the perspective of being a mom.
Reiki is often referred to as loving energy and loving your children is essential for a good relationship.
We may not like what they are doing, but we still love them.
Nonetheless, children of any age, need rules, boundaries, and discipline.
Contrary to popular belief in a free for all – rules, boundaries and discipline, make them feel safe and cared for.
As a parent, you are the leader. As a leader, you set the ground rules.
Then we all know where we stand at different stages of childhood.
They will naturally push against the boundaries and start to cross the lines drawn.
And this is healthy behavior, not bad.
It is most natural, and as they begin to push, you begin to stretch the boundaries to encompass there new found individuality.
But now we come into the grey areas.
If you find yourself in conflict and getting angry, then that is simply because they won’t do what you want.
This can be seen in the terrible two-stage and also in teenagers. But in all cases of conflict, we need to be sure of ourselves.
We need to be calm and assertive, not bullying.
When we have set a good example to our children by remaining calm, courteous, and respectful, then they will follow that example.
A leader does not have to point out every little detail nor a parent to a child. By remaining calm and respectful…
We leave a big door open to enable us to communicate.
Then listen – listen, and remember.
Can you hear your mom and dad?
Is it all so different now from when you were young?
Externally yes, but internally, no.
How can Reiki help you understand your children better?
Simply by bringing you home to yourself.
When you do a self-treatment each day on yourself, you drop into that still, quiet center.
That place of harmony and balance.
This is like a foundation stone of calm strength.
People young and old will bring their little stones of trouble to you so that they can build upon your inner strength.
To understand your children, you need to understand yourself first…
Your own fears for their safety, their health, their future.
But your fears can be dissolved with using Reiki. Reiki will strengthen your trust and your judgment.
You will intuitively know when and where to set the boundaries for both of you to be happy.
Whoever thought their children would turn out to be so amazing.
So brilliant, so beautiful.
We are here to support love and guide them until they can fly on their own.
Reiki can calm and melt our fears at all of their stages and also help to heal their bumps and bruises too.
You see, the outer world reflects our inner feelings like a mirror and non more so than with our children.
They will excavate your deepest fears and sorrows and shoot them to the surface like a cannon.
Using Reiki on yourself will heal those wounds and fears.
Again, this will shift your relationship with everyone, not just your children.
The more you release and let go of your own stuff. The more loving and caring and close your relationship with your children will be.
Well, this has been my own experience with Reiki and it’s my own opinion, of course.
But failing that you could try hexing them with it.
No, no, no, I’m only teasing, because love ’em or hate ’em, they are all simply adorable.
Thanks for listening.