Good mornin’ all…
Chikara-Reiki-Do can be used for a variety of things, not just healing something physical.
For example, you said…
I have this new friend who’s undergoing some personal crisis.
Initially, I supported her emotionally. However, of late I get very irritated whenever she calls. I avoid her calls but since our kids are in the same class, so I can’t avoid her completely.
Every time she speaks to me, I feel a lot of negative emotions churn up in me and it’s nothing to do with what she says.
Why do you think I feel like this? Is it an underlying negative vibe that I get from her or am I prejudiced?
Here’s what I think 🙂
It always helps to look at ourselves, not the other, when such a situation occurs. For the outer simply reflects the inner.
What is happening when we get ‘irritated’?
Irritation is caused by a ‘stimulus’ which in this case caused friction.
The stimulus has caused something hidden to be revealed.
This woman is bugging you, needling you, in-flaming you!
Could it be that this person’s ‘crisis’ reflects something in your life that you don’t want to face?
Perhaps her situation is a little too close to home, too close to reality, for you?
How dare she air it in public, so to speak.
Or perhaps her being ‘weak and weepy’ wobbles your ‘strong and silent’ method of dealing with things?
Exactly what are the negative thoughts that pop up when you see her?
For they’re YOUR thoughts and feelings, not hers 🙂
That’s what you need to look at and address within yourself.
And yes, such a person can be an ‘energy drain’ too. They just seem to suck the energy right out of us and then they go away feeling great and we need to sleep…ha ha ha!
But an excellent way to deal with ‘drainage’ is to always give yourself a Chikara-Reiki-Do session each morning. Make sure you’re always filled up and overflowing 🙂
And drink Reiki charged water throughout the day.
There are NO accidents ever!
This lady came into your life for a reason – bless her 🙂
Known only to you 🙂
Perhaps you have an issue that needs to be rattled, prodded and prised out so you can release it?
Avoid this person for a while but as you think of her the same ‘irritation’ will arise…
So, stop – and look into yourself for the true answer in that moment.
Whatever she brings up in you, thank her 🙂
It’s your problem. She’s simply there to show it to you 🙂
In the nicest possible way of course…
But after you’ve sat quietly with yourself and your Reiki, also release this lady from your energy.
As you settle and become more calm and confident so will she.
Then you’ll both know whether your relationship is going to become a true friendship or if it’s just a passing phase.
Trust yourself in those Reiki moments. 🙂
Champion, have a personally powerful, Chikara-Reiki-Do weekend 🙂