Good morning all!
The word ‘parameters’ means: A constant element or factor serving as a limit or boundary.
Regardless of what people say nowadays, we all need parameters – Reiki Parameters included 🙂
They make you feel safe. 🙂
They give you something to lean on and feel comfortable with. 🙂
They support you when you feel unsure or insecure.
They also give you something to push against when you feel confident. 🙂
Right from the start you need to set up parameters – your personal parameters.
Just as a baby physically grows out of their clothes, cot and bottle feeds, so you constantly carry on growing mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
How do you know that though, if you don’t push the parameters you set for yourself?
How can we know we’re radical, if there are no set parameters for ordinary Reiki?
Parameters come in various disguises.
Parameters literally expand by moving into a huge house from a cosy cottage.
The walls literally move! It can unsettle you.
There’s a period of adjustment needed where you ‘grow into’ the new parameters.
You grow and feel safe and comfortable once more. 🙂
You become familiar and confident with everything. 🙂
And once that happens, it’s time to reset your parameters again. 🙂
At first, to gain confidence and experience, you need to have guidelines.
You need to feel safe and that you’re doing things ‘correctly’ like everyone else.
You fit in…
You follow the rules…
You accept the parameters laid down by someone else.
But after a while, you know that for you, there’s more. 🙂
Another way maybe, a variation on the general theme. 🙂
The parameters are no longer safe and comfortable; they have become restrictive and suffocating – boring!
It’s time for you to step ‘outside your box’, so to speak. 🙂
To push your parameters again…
Break the mould…
Discover how amazing and powerful you really are on your own.
Then you set your own parameters. 🙂
Then you become comfortable with your own rules.
Then others fit in with you. 🙂
Before you know it, you’ve grown into a ‘personally powerful person’ 🙂
Sometimes known as a charismatic leader!
But only you know when you’re ready to stretch your legs.
Only you know when you’re ready to reset your parameters.
If your life feels as if it doesn’t quite fit anymore, then perhaps the time is now? 🙂
How does that relationship work – for you?
How does that work situation feel – for you?
Is your house too big or small – for you?
Only you know 🙂
I’m happy to ping your string that marks out your parameters 🙂
I’m happy to lead by example.
I’m happy to share my love, light and laughter with you 🙂
But only you KNOW 🙂
Then push your parameters.
Leap your boundaries.
Create new limits 🙂
Push, push, push and set yourself free! 🙂
There’s only one energy… it is you and you are it.
You are the Reiki and the Reiki is you.
Feel it 🙂
Know it 🙂
Trust it 🙂
Now have a fantastic weekend…