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Reiki and Pregnancy
Q… I was wondering…. do you have anything you can share with me on Reiki to assist with getting pregnant.
Some of us maybe experiencing blockages or difficulties to becoming pregnant… both male and female. Can you offer some guidelines on how specifically Reiki can be used to overcome those blockages and allow pregnancy to naturally occur?
How should that particular Reiki treatment be carried out?
Would really love to hear your take on it… and then probably go on to Reiki during pregnancy.
And my answer…
A… On the surface, this question is just about a ‘physical’ interruption to becoming pregnant.
On the physical, practical level, we could suggest doing Reiki specifically on the 1st and 2nd chakra area and placing your hands directly over the womb or testicles and using the Mental and Emotional symbol in this area too.
On an emotional level, we could suggest addressing the fears of acceptance, responsibility, security and financial wherewithal.
The Tibetan Master symbol would help here…
And the 10 Minute Cure CD would also be brilliant for rooting out any deep seated fears…
Pregnancy is about allowing and letting go… giving and receiving.
But in truth, we need not concern ourselves with any of this when giving Reiki, either to ourselves or to another.
We do not even need to know what the ‘problem’ is – for we are not going to heal ‘The Problem’ we are simply going to share energy.
Whenever we perceive a ‘problem’ it is because there is an imbalance in the energy of that person or ourselves.
All we need to do is address that imbalance by sharing or blending with our Reiki energy.
It is said that Reiki has an intelligence all of its own and will do all that is necessary to heal a problem.
I would say that nature abhors any flux of energy that causes an imbalance and will correct any such imbalance asap.
But to help that process take place, we can draw upon our own inner energy, we call it our Reiki energy, and we can suffuse ourselves or another in it, so balance is restored.
The physical manifestation of any illness or problem is only the body giving us a clue to an emotional upset. Which can be recent or as long ago as you can remember!
If your mother experienced a traumatic emotional event when you were just a bump, then that will have registered too.
So we can dig and rummage around for as long as we like and come up with all sorts of ‘explanations’ for why this is happening…
…or we can simply swamp ourselves in the love and comfort of Reiki energy and restore our natural balance.
And most times it helps not to know what the problem is, as this can become a focus of negative intention by accident.
You see, by focussing on ‘getting pregnant’ in an ‘I can’t get pregnant’ kind of way – all the universe hears is ‘I can’t get pregnant’… and gives you more of ‘not getting pregnant’ 🙁
So, we really do have to watch what our primary thoughts and focuses are about!
Plus, if you don’t know what ‘the problem’ is, you cannot pass judgement…
And as for passing judgement, boy do we all like to do that 🙂
The trick is to simply lift your chin up and see in the distance what you do want and be as neutral as possible when giving or sharing your Reiki energy.
And the second question, which is a nice follow-on to the first…
Q… When people are given healing, how do they respond to it?
I know that it can work in so many different ways but people who receive the healing don’t always understand that.
Some long-time friends, that I have given healing to, haven’t understood that the healing may have worked in a way that they haven’t recognized.
I gave the wife some healing for her knee, which she eventually had to have a smaller operation on it than first thought. She had key-hole instead of a knee replacement.
Then her husband had a heart attack and had to have a triple by-pass.
But at 81yrs old and diabetic, he had a really hard time, including being on life-support… but eventually recovered well.
Not living near enough to give them regular sessions, I could only do the distant healing – which they wouldn’t have witnessed.
They always think it is a co-incidence when things get better and they think I am a ‘joke’…
It would be useful for them to read something that explains what healing can do.
As I have said, I know how healing can work, but it can be hard to explain to someone that thinks I am a ‘joke’ – so I don’t even try.
I just think that it could help them to understand and perhaps, believe.
And my answer…
A… Personally I do not now waste my time or breath trying to explain or convince anyone of anything – especially when they are neither interested, nor care.
I have more respect for myself than that.
You see, we are all perfectly within our rights to think and feel what we like and it is not for us to change others or for others to try and change us for that matter.
We generally learn by having the direct experience for ourselves… then we become firm “believers” 🙂
In the great scheme of things, we can only do ‘that which feels right for US, at that time’… and TRUST wholeheartedly that it is the right thing for ALL concerned, to experience.
Yes, the old man might have died – and who are we to say that even that was the wrong thing to happen…
The Reiki energy may simply have helped him to pass on smoothly and contentedly.
The fact that he recovered well and relatively speedily, is not to then say that is the right thing either…
Either outcome is simply a life experience for all concerned…
But another way to look at this, is that the outer reflects our inner…
In our quest for proof and confirmation that our Reiki energy has made a difference, we may be guilty of sowing the ‘seeds of doubt’ in our own minds.
And when others see us as a joke, perhaps it is a reminder to lighten up and not be so serious about life, the universe and all who sail in her 🙂
When people waft feathers, tinkle bells and wait for the fairies to arrive, maybe it makes some of us hide a smile 🙂
But so what…
If it works for you, it is right for you 🙂
TRUST yourself implicitly… feel your energy and be happy to share it with all who might need it.
The more you ‘lighten up’ and fill the air with love, light and LAUGHTER, the more powerful and free flowing your energy will be.
We are all a joke, it is all a joke, it’s the funniest joke ever 🙂
Those who see the funny side of life…
….the ridiculousness of it all, the sheer joy of it all, the physical pleasure of it all, the depth of it all, the completeness of it all, the wholeness of it all… will die laughing 🙂
The world is absurd, contradictory and perfect… but so what?
We are here to have fun and express ourselves in the most joyous fashion possible 🙂
The only opinion that counts to us is OURS…
So…be happy! Share your Reiki energy as and when you please and with whom you please and just KNOW that your world and those in it, will be all the better for it 🙂